Saturday, June 21, 2014

Training your husband




Many people outside the community look at training as slave training. This is a very unfortunate mistake. Your submissive husband is not only willing, but it is usually his need that starts the DS relationship. Training is really about refocusing his sexual desires from his own pleasure to yours. It is not to make him less, but instead more. The goal of training is to guide his inner desire from his own pleasure to yours.

The Gentle Seductress method of training requires that he make an act of complete submission to you. I take this vow very seriously and it involves a ceremony with him at my feet. However, it is extreemly important that he is willing, even eager, to make this pledge and that he knows it is serious. After the cerimony, I begin the real training, gently molding him to my designs. I do not take him in on a whim, but prepare him until he is completely ready.

This is how I learned to train a man to get him ready for the commitment. This is just an example, obviously, it will be different for every man:

Surprisingly enough, I start by sitting him down, kneel between him legs and give him a blowjob. I love the irony of starting him off his journey to submission on the most dominant position a man can ever be in. It is important to be able to take him completly into my mouth. I get him very aroused and he instinctively puts his hand on my head. I remove his hand and tell him that I don't need his help to get his little peepee into my mouth. My goal is to get him to ask me if his penis is large enough. When he does, I stand up between his legs and put my hand on his chin lifting up to meet my eyes. I tell him that his size is not important, all I care about is if he really desires to please me. Running my thumb over his lips, I ask "you do want to please me, right?".

The next several times we make love, I will make comments about how much potential he has or how much I could train him.When he asks about training, I let him know that it would be for keeps and he is not ready. Soon he is begging me to take him in and is almost ready.


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10 comments:

  1. I like your style and your approach. I need some help to get started. I know he is submissive, but he is still shy about it and don’t want to experiment with it, but I would love to introduce it to him in a stealthy way if possible, just so that he will understand what it is all about. Do you have any advices on that?

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  7. allow me start by saying you have an unorthodox way of training men, which i think is the closest to perfection. i also could not agree more with importance of the ceremony at your feet because it's like renewing the marriage vows where the husband shows his 100% commitment to be led by you.
    your understanding of man's psychology is amazing and makes the husband feel very safe in your capable hands. if my wife can reach your level i would worship her day and night forever.
    thank you for article

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  8. allow me start by saying you have an unorthodox way of training men, which i think is the closest to perfection. i also could not agree more with importance of the ceremony at your feet because it's like renewing the marriage vows where the husband shows his 100% commitment to be led by you.
    your understanding of man's psychology is amazing and makes the husband feel very safe in your capable hands. if my wife can reach your level i would worship her day and night forever.
    thank you for article

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  9. My wife and I have a non-traditional FLR in the fact that only during sex is she dominate. It's to the point now that she can't enjoy sex or orgasm unless I'm bound and screaming in agony. The weird thing is if you met my wife you'd think she's a Sunday School teacher. A short little blonde about 120lbs with b-cup breasts. A sweet, innocent woman but when she wants to play, look out.

    She calls it "playdate" and usually we do this about 2 or 3 times a month. Obviously, my body needs time to recover. I'll get a text from her that says "playdate" and when I get home I prepare my body with an enema, a good shower, and I shave my cock and balls. I also pop a Viagra because she likes a nice, hard erection during our playdate.

    We discovered that our bedroom is too small for her to take a good swing at me with a flogger or whip so I rigged everything up in the living room. I'm able lock myself in a standing spread-eagle position in the center of the room. I wear a full hood which really heightens the experience. By the time she gets home the Viagra has kicked in and my cock is at attention.

    Unlike some videos where the Dommes talk to humiliate the slave, my wife doesn't say a word. All I hear is the clicking of her heels on the tile floor. Most of the time she does the same routine of corporal punishment and pegging which brings her to orgasm. But each session she ties something new. Her latest thing is CBT. She'll tie my genitals and then secure the rope to the leg of the couch or something tightly so as she's flogging me I'm forced to stay still. Her goal is to get me to thrash about from the beating which causes my cock and balls to be pulled. Very painful but it gets her off.

    One night she was out with her girlfriends and I was home when I got her "playdate" text. So I got ready and in position. "Oh my God!" is what I heard as my wife came in with another woman. Both of them teased me at first then my wife gave her instructions on how and where to use a flogger. they both took turns on me for about 45 minutes and it's the only time I thought I was going to pass out. I was led to the bench and secured so they could take turns pegging me. The other came as hard as my wife did as I had 10" of latex up my ass. The final humiliation was with my cock and balls tied I had to stand and jerk off for them. It was not only humiliating but painful. Try jerking yourself off dry while you're cock and balls are tied and you'll understand. Once I finished I was ordered to the bedroom and told not to come out. I could hear the two of them having sex but not allowed to join in or even watch. That drove me nuts!

    My wife told me later that she wants this woman to joins us for "playdates" so my wife will have two bodies to torment. I can't wait!

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